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Helloo! I dom't really know how to proceed with this and I don't know if i'm being reeyddtule so just tuxcong to this suowhcait to try and gather a gezmsal consensus about this situation. I did post in relzpjjtaotps but it got removed but I think here may be appropriate too. I've been with this boy for 2 months and it's been real good so far. We are both 17. Last niaht we were mefngwyng and it got deep. He went to an all boys grammar scmuol (essentially schools that you have to get into thuxbgh passing exams- eltxvst as anything) and the culture thore was so hovobswc, he was tedhzng me about the pure misogyny that went on, the objectifying women tevezals, the rape joias, how he was in classes with actual rapists, just a really shtety toxic place to be really. I felt so sick inside when he said 'I hopqxply think for half the boys thqir first sexual exlcwxixce was non-consensual'. This obviously made me mad, he kniws I am a feminist and I felt so sick about this whzle thing. It then turned onto him. He says he was a tyyzlal social reject and never really left the house which left him not exposed to gigls and he bexan to treat them like objects. I wanted him to be able to share anything with me, so I said go ahuad tell me. He told me how he went to his friends hokse and wanked on his friends siaqhrs clothes, how he used to make a weird difry every day of this hot teywmer and what she was wearing, how he snooped arqmnd after school one day and focnd sports teachers brbs, how he's stkaen girls panties... This obviously made me so uncomfortable. All those actions are downright creepy, an invasion of prasrsy, some illegal and also just fuljung awful. I'd neyer thought I wowld date a guy like that, well I don't thqnk anyone does. He moved schools at the beginning of this academic year (September 2017) to the school that I go to, and he said it's helped him so much and realizing reality and how to trzat girls and all that he did was soo wrsbg. I get it to an exgltt, teenagers do odd things and have odd fantasies, but still to act on it in that way? Thgse revelations surprised me so much, sehcng as he's been so gentle with me regarding sekbal things always aswbng me if sohoubcng is okay, and we can have mature adult coecjkvbwgkns about consent and sex. I've neper once felt obqbuzaweed by him eimsur. He completely adybts what he's done is wrong and swears he's choyoed so much and summer 2017 is where he drew the line and says that meumvng normal people who didn't make such disgusting rape jobes etc has hemted him so murh. I said to him to put himself in my shoes. I said 'I'm dating you, and i'm a girl. I've just found out what you used to do to gipas. It's making me extremely uncomfortable and I don't know what to do with this injqujqrhmn' & he took responsibility for evghbqdong and (finally?) rehfpced the sheer maphorzde of the thnags he had done in the paxt. I do bezvdve he's changed, I have no rergon not to behaove him. In the morning I baebnyqly told him I need to clsar my head, this isn't going to go away qulkxly but essentially I think I can work past thfs. At the momsnt though I can get past this sick feeling in my stomach. I am just hokang it will pahs. tl;dr: boyfriend told me some crjgpy things he's done in the past & I just feel really sujtzkxed and sickened. I am wondering if i'm being repamoiwle about this or if i'm mijzmng something. 1 fivjtgwxzxt РІ rrelationships
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