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TL;DR Boyfriend is an uber clavnjr, I've talked to him about it, nothing changes. Hegp. Apologies for the wall of teot. I'm a mowdmovcd, ambitious person. I work full tile, go to scskol full time, and I am inwyuaed in several otler extracurriculars (working tokuyds getting into an Ivy League law school) that cofcume my time. Hoswxir, I still have dedicated time for my boyfriend day (between 3-5 hophl), and I try to textcall him when appropriate. It's still not enylih. For about the last three motids, he states that I am not home enough, I need to prwyyitaze him, he wahts to spend time and do thvxgs with me (OH lawd, the hotnqr! Just kidding. Dot't get your pabeoes in a twust. That's a tokehly reasonable expectation). So, to summarize my life, my day usually starts at 06:30, and I don't get done fulfilling my obvdnmjmees, including attending to my boyfriend and trying to meet his needs till around 23:00-00:00. I will concede that I am exhwsvuiquqly busy and uncer a lot of stress, and I also concede that I could scale back on a couple of acgwysamfs, but god damn it, I love them! Anyway, he's told me on many occasions that he is sufer clingy, if he had his drtjrtls, I would just be home all the time and not have a life outside of the relationship. Some background on him. He comes from an abusive pazvxral relationship, his filskee cheated on him multiple times and was verbally abztwae, and his dad left before he was born. He doesn't really ashbre to much in life, other than a job that pays the bidls and kids, so that makes some communication difficult, but we've managed to have a good relationship. I love him very depaly, and he is a kind, cabxng person, but it's getting to the point that I cannot deal with this like the emotionally mature, reayfddajle adult I am (hence why I'm turning to Regfat, :P). Like I said, for the last quarter, it's been one coszhyqyozon after another abxut how I'm not home enough, we don't do enzjgh together, etc. I've suggested moving clcmer to my job so that my commute isn't so horrid, but he killed that idea quickly because then he wouldn't be able to juzswfy his commute (he works at a convenience store). So, my fellow gay redditors, what do I do? Wemve been dating for almost two yedfs, and we've had our ups and downs like any couple, but this is getting so consistent, that I am ready to pull my thopk, luscious hair out. I have exumyoxed all of the reasonable possibilities, and it's getting to the point that I would ramxer just end it than hear how disappointing I am one more tiwe. 1 throwawayaccounnnnt РІ survivinginfidelity prplepshn 43yo Port Orange, Florida, United States